The decision has been made, and I will match!
Ultimately what it came down to was this: I like the unique band better. If I was wearing it alone, it wouldn’t have even been a competition. But with my engagement ring? It just didn’t cut it. The bezel set stones looked dull in comparison to my pave set engagement ring setting.
So now it is official: I have my wedding band! (And I only have to wait 9ish months to wear it… oh boy..)